Match your vision, desires, and values with your bank account

Wealth isn’t just about the number in your bank account — it’s about the entire ecosystem that sustains it. In this post, I’m unpacking the 7 pillars of a wealth ecosystem that most people never talk about: from your health and relationships to your environment and spiritual alignment. When these internal and external systems work together, you can build wealth that’s not just bigger, but more sustainable.

How do your beliefs about money change as you change? In this deeply personal reflection, I walk you through the many eras of my financial journey—from relying on my parents to discovering investing, from thinking all rich people were evil to becoming a wealth coach, and eventually questioning the very system that created my financial success. This post is about holding space for nuance, evolving with empathy, and defining wealth on your own terms—beyond status, beyond six figures, and beyond capitalism.

If I could go back and sit down with my younger self before she started her financial journey, I wouldn’t just hand her a budgeting spreadsheet and tell her to save. I’d tell her what I know now: that wealth is so much more than just numbers.

In this post, I’m reflecting on the lessons I wish someone had told me earlier. From realizing wealth is about how you feel (not just what you have), to understanding that your version of success doesn’t have to match anyone else’s, to the quiet power of starting small and investing early—this is the post I wish I had when I started.

Whether you're new to building wealth or feeling burnt out trying to "do it right," this one’s for you. Read on to get the real talk I wish I had sooner.

Struggling to stick to your budget—even though you’ve done all the “right” things?

You’re not alone. And you’re not bad with money.

In this post, I break down the real reasons your budget isn’t working (hint: it’s not just about spreadsheets or discipline), and how to create a system that actually honors your nervous system, your income, and your values.

Plus, I’m sharing two free tools to help you shift from financial confusion to clarity—with more ease, reflection, and alignment.

When I look at my phone, I don’t just see distractions, I see tools for healing, growing, and building wealth. From the app that helped me start investing, to the one that tracks my moon-synced period, I’ve curated a digital ecosystem that actually supports my well-being. In this post, I’m sharing 13 essential apps that have shaped my journey—financially, emotionally, and spiritually. If you're looking to level up your life without burning out, start here.

What if your burnout isn’t a mindset problem—but an energetic one? In this post, I share how Human Design radically changed my approach to decision-making, money, and self-trust. Whether you're a Manifesting Generator (like me), a Projector, Reflector, Manifestor, or Generator, learning to honor your energetic blueprint can be the key to unlocking not just abundance, but alignment. If you're tired of forcing what doesn’t feel right, this one’s for you.

Abuse doesn’t always show up as bruises—it can look like one partner controlling the finances, limiting access to money, or pressuring the other to prove love through financial sacrifice.

In this deeply personal post, I explore the often-hidden link between financial abuse and intimate partner violence—especially how it affects Black women. I also share why financial literacy isn't just about building wealth—it's about building freedom. Sometimes, it’s the very skill that saves a life.

Whether you’re in a relationship, healing from one, or supporting someone who is, this is a must-read.

Money isn’t just a resource — it’s an energetic exchange. In this blog post, we explore how redefining your relationship with money can shift your entire financial reality. From hyper-independence to energetic flow, learn how alignment, openness, and interdependence can transform the way you earn, spend, and receive.

I used to think finding joy and healing meant hopping on a plane.

Bali, Costa Rica, Mexico… if there was a beach, aesthetic food spots, and being immersed in people speaking a foreign language on the itinerary, I was down. I’d tell myself, “This is for my growth.” And sometimes, it was. But other times? I was running from grief, from burnout, from the quiet questions I didn’t want to face at home.

What I didn’t realize then was that I was falling into what I now call the experience trap: overspending on experiences that look like self-care but quietly drain our wallets and delay our deeper healing. And the wild part? We don’t even judge ourselves for it, because it’s a “good” kind of spending. It’s not material, right?

But when the card statements hit and the peace still feels out of reach… we start to question. And that’s where real financial responsibility kicks in.

Hyper-independence might look like strength on the outside — the woman who gets it all done, who never asks for help, who holds it down for everyone. But underneath, it’s often masking unhealed survival patterns that block the flow of true wealth, abundance, and support.

In this blog, we’re exploring how hyper-independence shows up in Black women and marginalized communities, how it disconnects us from receiving — especially when it comes to money — and how embracing interdependence can open the door to holistic, soul-aligned wealth.

If you’ve ever felt like asking for help makes you weak, or that you have to “do it all” to be worthy of success... this one’s for you.